ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Met a girl in class. She seemed attracted, didn't get many chances to speak to her. Finally sat by her one day, we exchanged numbers, met up to do some homework that was due (we're graduate students, so no fvcking around when it comes to that).
Good conversation (English is her 3rd language so as good as it gets, anyway...), touching initiated by both parties (though she's European so idk if it's still an IOI).
She invites me out to celebrate her roommate's birthday. Said she'd call me the day of. Never did. Didn't speak to her in class the next two days (but it wasn't awkward, because we were never near each other). So I text her and ask about a class I missed. She answers, we exchange a few texts. I text again the next day asking if she's been to a certain part of the city that relates to her background (we're both new to our current city). Few texts back and forth, and I say "I'm free after 9 tonight - wanna grab a drink?"
She responds like 2 hours later saying she has to study, and asks if tomorrow works. I say "sure, I'll be in touch" but I think she's blowing me off, so I plan to not contact her.
Well, tomorrow happened to be today, and she in fact does contact me. So we meet at a bar near where I live (me being the sly devil I am...you never know!). I buy the first round, we talk a bit, then she buys the next round and I suggest we play some pool. There's a couple playing, they offer to play doubles. So we're all talking and playing, good time. Both girls were horrible and us guys were pulling the weight, so that was a good dynamic. Again, good amount of touching between us, mostly initiated by me but she seemed receptive to it.
Now the part I hate - SHE decides to end the night, citing her upcoming exam (true). I walk her to the subway station, and then we part with the hug and double cheek kiss Euro bullsh!t (she stuck her cheek in my face so I really had no choice). It happened really fast.
So I sadly still can't even tell if she's into me, but I will assume she's interested and play it accordingly. I'm not disappointed that there was no kiss, I'm disappointed that I didn't end it on MY terms, and that she seemed to rush the closing interaction.
I am quite thankful that I have a couple other girls I'm seeing at the moment, otherwise I'd be all day mega AFC all over this girl; I feel myself putting her on a pedestal and I need to keep myself in check. I guess the plan is to not contact her til I see her in class (though my inner AFC kinda wants to text her something short and sweet tomorrow), and maybe set something up for next weekend after exams.
Good conversation (English is her 3rd language so as good as it gets, anyway...), touching initiated by both parties (though she's European so idk if it's still an IOI).
She invites me out to celebrate her roommate's birthday. Said she'd call me the day of. Never did. Didn't speak to her in class the next two days (but it wasn't awkward, because we were never near each other). So I text her and ask about a class I missed. She answers, we exchange a few texts. I text again the next day asking if she's been to a certain part of the city that relates to her background (we're both new to our current city). Few texts back and forth, and I say "I'm free after 9 tonight - wanna grab a drink?"
She responds like 2 hours later saying she has to study, and asks if tomorrow works. I say "sure, I'll be in touch" but I think she's blowing me off, so I plan to not contact her.
Well, tomorrow happened to be today, and she in fact does contact me. So we meet at a bar near where I live (me being the sly devil I am...you never know!). I buy the first round, we talk a bit, then she buys the next round and I suggest we play some pool. There's a couple playing, they offer to play doubles. So we're all talking and playing, good time. Both girls were horrible and us guys were pulling the weight, so that was a good dynamic. Again, good amount of touching between us, mostly initiated by me but she seemed receptive to it.
Now the part I hate - SHE decides to end the night, citing her upcoming exam (true). I walk her to the subway station, and then we part with the hug and double cheek kiss Euro bullsh!t (she stuck her cheek in my face so I really had no choice). It happened really fast.
So I sadly still can't even tell if she's into me, but I will assume she's interested and play it accordingly. I'm not disappointed that there was no kiss, I'm disappointed that I didn't end it on MY terms, and that she seemed to rush the closing interaction.
I am quite thankful that I have a couple other girls I'm seeing at the moment, otherwise I'd be all day mega AFC all over this girl; I feel myself putting her on a pedestal and I need to keep myself in check. I guess the plan is to not contact her til I see her in class (though my inner AFC kinda wants to text her something short and sweet tomorrow), and maybe set something up for next weekend after exams.
