"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In person vs. Online & Apps

ExoticOne

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So, I've been "offline" past couple of years honestly (no internet or tech around me), and I just been curious, you guys think it's more in your power to be able to approach a girl in person vs. the guy who's trying to game her strictly online/app ?

Do you any of you have a real good skill or say good heh habit of gaming and finding new girls online/app ?

I don't have any social media whatsoever, especially after deactivating my Facebook some years back, and aside from being on SnapChat a few years ago and it was kinda fun when I tried it, making short funny clips or whatever... should I make an account of any sort? I just like being offline from all that cause I don't have a huge friend list, and Instagram was the only type to get me interested but I was thinking of also holding out on that until I meet some new girls and finally socialize enough to take pics.
Thoughts? :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Murk

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In person is better, you can both feel each other out, see if you’re attracted and it’s easier to see if they actually want to fvck you.

Online is just a precursor to the above. It’s easy to match multiple women but you need to be savvy enough to get them on a date, then you have to do the in person thing but with even more anxiety due to wondering if they actually like you and will you get along and vibe well.

I do a mixture of both, give you lots of options, in 2 weeks you can go from scarcity to abundance but you must be decent looking for online. In real life you can charm a girl, online it’s all about looks 90% and 10% not being a socially awkward weirdo who can string some text together and put a girl at ease.
 

ExoticOne

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Any recommendations for what apps are worth trying (besides Tinder) ??
 
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