"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In person vs. Online & Apps

ExoticOne

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So, I've been "offline" past couple of years honestly (no internet or tech around me), and I just been curious, you guys think it's more in your power to be able to approach a girl in person vs. the guy who's trying to game her strictly online/app ?

Do you any of you have a real good skill or say good heh habit of gaming and finding new girls online/app ?

I don't have any social media whatsoever, especially after deactivating my Facebook some years back, and aside from being on SnapChat a few years ago and it was kinda fun when I tried it, making short funny clips or whatever... should I make an account of any sort? I just like being offline from all that cause I don't have a huge friend list, and Instagram was the only type to get me interested but I was thinking of also holding out on that until I meet some new girls and finally socialize enough to take pics.
Thoughts? :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In person is better, you can both feel each other out, see if you’re attracted and it’s easier to see if they actually want to fvck you.

Online is just a precursor to the above. It’s easy to match multiple women but you need to be savvy enough to get them on a date, then you have to do the in person thing but with even more anxiety due to wondering if they actually like you and will you get along and vibe well.

I do a mixture of both, give you lots of options, in 2 weeks you can go from scarcity to abundance but you must be decent looking for online. In real life you can charm a girl, online it’s all about looks 90% and 10% not being a socially awkward weirdo who can string some text together and put a girl at ease.
 

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Any recommendations for what apps are worth trying (besides Tinder) ??
 
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