"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In person vs. Online & Apps

ExoticOne

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So, I've been "offline" past couple of years honestly (no internet or tech around me), and I just been curious, you guys think it's more in your power to be able to approach a girl in person vs. the guy who's trying to game her strictly online/app ?

Do you any of you have a real good skill or say good heh habit of gaming and finding new girls online/app ?

I don't have any social media whatsoever, especially after deactivating my Facebook some years back, and aside from being on SnapChat a few years ago and it was kinda fun when I tried it, making short funny clips or whatever... should I make an account of any sort? I just like being offline from all that cause I don't have a huge friend list, and Instagram was the only type to get me interested but I was thinking of also holding out on that until I meet some new girls and finally socialize enough to take pics.
Thoughts? :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Murk

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In person is better, you can both feel each other out, see if you’re attracted and it’s easier to see if they actually want to fvck you.

Online is just a precursor to the above. It’s easy to match multiple women but you need to be savvy enough to get them on a date, then you have to do the in person thing but with even more anxiety due to wondering if they actually like you and will you get along and vibe well.

I do a mixture of both, give you lots of options, in 2 weeks you can go from scarcity to abundance but you must be decent looking for online. In real life you can charm a girl, online it’s all about looks 90% and 10% not being a socially awkward weirdo who can string some text together and put a girl at ease.
 

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Any recommendations for what apps are worth trying (besides Tinder) ??
 
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