“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In need of quick advice...should I fallback

kenpiffyjr

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Quick...

Chatted with this chick on pof. Hit it off. She seemed very interested.

Anyway..yesterday I came out and was like 'whats your weekend looking like'
Said she had nothing planned except on Sunday. I was like 'OK, Friday night let's get together'. She asked where and I told her a spot where we could kick it and shoot pool and just get to know each other. Did not add all that text...just the specifics. She kinda dodged it and didn't message back until this morning with just a 'Hi.' I replied about 7 hours later to punish her for taking so long and was very brief. We made small talk about our work schedules.
She asked about mine and then I asked about hers. Once she replied I made a joke and said 'Good...not trying to beat you in pool at 10 am in the morning anyway ;)' Chick just went ghost for the rest of the day "all of the sudden". I see some things I may have possibly done wrong but just need some experienced hands on deck to tell me so I can improve but also how to handle it at this point.

Thanks in advance
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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kenpiffyjr said:
Quick...

Chatted with this chick on pof. Hit it off. She seemed very interested.

Anyway..yesterday I came out and was like 'whats your weekend looking like'
Said she had nothing planned except on Sunday. I was like 'OK, Friday night let's get together'. She asked where and I told her a spot where we could kick it and shoot pool and just get to know each other. Did not add all that text...just the specifics. She kinda dodged it and didn't message back until this morning with just a 'Hi.' I replied about 7 hours later to punish her for taking so long and was very brief. We made small talk about our work schedules.
She asked about mine and then I asked about hers. Once she replied I made a joke and said 'Good...not trying to beat you in pool at 10 am in the morning anyway ;)' Chick just went ghost for the rest of the day "all of the sudden". I see some things I may have possibly done wrong but just need some experienced hands on deck to tell me so I can improve but also how to handle it at this point.

Thanks in advance
SEEMED is the operative word here.

Online dating is ALL about looks. Game is practically irrelevant. All girls online are flaky to the 10th degree. It is a numbers game by default when you go online.

There is no room to "improve". Just look your best and hope for a bite. Whether your game is top notch or you have no game to speak of, expect 80%+ to flake on you.

It's no big deal. Move on and stop giving online girls a second thought.
 
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