“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

In need of help

T

tobeaDJ

New Member
Joined
Oct 3, 2003
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Hi all,

I am really impressed by this site. The tips are great. I have a little problem and maybe you guys could tell me what to do about it.

I have been seeing this girl almost every other day since the last one month. I haven't let her know that I want to get into a relationship with her but I have been very caring for her, like inquiring about her well-being, cooking once in a while, gave her flowers a couple of times. We have shared a lot of info about each other, maybe both positive and negative. Somehow, things are a little stuck and I can see interest levels slightly on the wane.

I still see her every now and then I want to save the situation in a real DJ style.

How can I help the situation without showing that I am making a drastic change. I want to recreate the attraction now.

Thanks for your help.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

S

Slickster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2003
Messages
2,517
Reaction score
215
Location
Canada
Scroll up to the top of the page.

You see that sentence that starts with 'New here?'

Click the DJ Bible link.

You're on your way.
 
S

Survivor

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2000
Messages
763
Reaction score
26
Age
50
1. Stop seeing her every other day. Become elusive.

2. Stop caring for her, or any girl for that matter. No more flowers, candy, or cooking. The time to do those nice things for a girl will come later. Right now, however, you've got more important work to do.

3. Get a life. Find other things to do, so you won't obsess over one girl. Become a challenge. The girl in question may not respond to you, but other girls eventually will.

4. Study this site and apply some of its principles. Feel free to post field reports.

5. From now on, post newbie questions in the DJ Discussion, not Tips.

Welcome to the forum, kid.
 
H

hardwork

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2002
Messages
982
Reaction score
2
Discussion
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top