last 2 yrs,i met this girl,she was in the same secondary school as me.. cause im more of a laid back type of guy,i prefer girls to come for me,and she eventually did,she used to like me but as i was having a gf at that point of time,she stop pursuing.. then after i broke up,i started to spent more time with her,its just some natural thing,chatting in msn and sms.. then soon,we started liking each other,but i dont know if she loved me.. so i started pursuing her,we had our times,it was uber great,the whole experience is just different for me cause everything seems so natural.. easier said,she somehow changed me.. but we didnt really get into the bf/gf relationship,we're stuck at the friends part.. so one day,she started having doubts about us,and everything started to change.. and worst of all,she told me she just want to be friends with me.. so i started to be a wuss and ask her all those stupid q about us being together again and all that only to realise she will ignore me.. so after reading some of the newsletter i decided to heck her,gave her late replies in msn.. but the prob is she like some guy.. how do i go about this.? i read somewhere that once a girl attraction for u is gone,its as good as gone,no point going after it again,but with her,i just the whole experience is amazing,she change me for good and a great motivator when im down.. what should i do now? pls help me..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
pretend you never met her. She didnt change you. Its all in your head. The only person that can change YOU is YOU. No doubt people can have an affect on us. How old are u anyways?
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
I didnt say theres no chance, but theres no chance right NOW. Maybe, and i do stress the maybe, at some other point. If shes got another dude then youre out for now. Let her see you have your own life and being with other hos. youre only 18 and have alot to learn about women. Its ok it just takes a little time.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
You mean you dont have any interest in other girls?
loco ass said:last 2 yrs,i met this girl,she was in the same secondary school as me..
Wow you went to school? Did they teach you to use paragraphs or punctuation?
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Didn't you read that new law? It's illegal to teach kids to write legibly. You can only teach them 1337$p33k and msnspeek. At least, that law must have passed; it seems nobody can write like an intelligent human being anymore. Hell, I speak/write better English than pretty much all of those kids, and it's my second language.Skel said:Wow you went to school? Did they teach you to use paragraphs or punctuation?
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
An this is why people get friend zoned, they don't show there intent. I can tell already from how you said your laid-back and want girls to come to you.
Girl's aren't just going to jump on your dik. You have to lead and escalate everything. An you didn't do that. Did you kiss this girl? Did you fuk her? If you didn't then you know where you're problem is at.
Like the other poster said she didn't really change you, it was all in your head.
Girl's aren't just going to jump on your dik. You have to lead and escalate everything. An you didn't do that. Did you kiss this girl? Did you fuk her? If you didn't then you know where you're problem is at.
Like the other poster said she didn't really change you, it was all in your head.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.