last 2 yrs,i met this girl,she was in the same secondary school as me.. cause im more of a laid back type of guy,i prefer girls to come for me,and she eventually did,she used to like me but as i was having a gf at that point of time,she stop pursuing.. then after i broke up,i started to spent more time with her,its just some natural thing,chatting in msn and sms.. then soon,we started liking each other,but i dont know if she loved me.. so i started pursuing her,we had our times,it was uber great,the whole experience is just different for me cause everything seems so natural.. easier said,she somehow changed me.. but we didnt really get into the bf/gf relationship,we're stuck at the friends part.. so one day,she started having doubts about us,and everything started to change.. and worst of all,she told me she just want to be friends with me.. so i started to be a wuss and ask her all those stupid q about us being together again and all that only to realise she will ignore me.. so after reading some of the newsletter i decided to heck her,gave her late replies in msn.. but the prob is she like some guy.. how do i go about this.? i read somewhere that once a girl attraction for u is gone,its as good as gone,no point going after it again,but with her,i just the whole experience is amazing,she change me for good and a great motivator when im down.. what should i do now? pls help me..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
pretend you never met her. She didnt change you. Its all in your head. The only person that can change YOU is YOU. No doubt people can have an affect on us. How old are u anyways?
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
I didnt say theres no chance, but theres no chance right NOW. Maybe, and i do stress the maybe, at some other point. If shes got another dude then youre out for now. Let her see you have your own life and being with other hos. youre only 18 and have alot to learn about women. Its ok it just takes a little time.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
You mean you dont have any interest in other girls?
loco ass said:last 2 yrs,i met this girl,she was in the same secondary school as me..
Wow you went to school? Did they teach you to use paragraphs or punctuation?
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Didn't you read that new law? It's illegal to teach kids to write legibly. You can only teach them 1337$p33k and msnspeek. At least, that law must have passed; it seems nobody can write like an intelligent human being anymore. Hell, I speak/write better English than pretty much all of those kids, and it's my second language.Skel said:Wow you went to school? Did they teach you to use paragraphs or punctuation?
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
An this is why people get friend zoned, they don't show there intent. I can tell already from how you said your laid-back and want girls to come to you.
Girl's aren't just going to jump on your dik. You have to lead and escalate everything. An you didn't do that. Did you kiss this girl? Did you fuk her? If you didn't then you know where you're problem is at.
Like the other poster said she didn't really change you, it was all in your head.
Girl's aren't just going to jump on your dik. You have to lead and escalate everything. An you didn't do that. Did you kiss this girl? Did you fuk her? If you didn't then you know where you're problem is at.
Like the other poster said she didn't really change you, it was all in your head.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.