Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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in need of HELP!!!Cought up in a messed up situation

BC3

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Heres my situation. i work a dealership, a new girl started "Jessica", who I am very attracted to. I have met her, and talked for a few min hear and there. Her sister"Erin" who i am good friends with introduced me to her, and she too works there.

I got to talking with my friend(erin) about jessica, and found out alot about her, and it sounds like we like alot fo the same things, and we actually HIt it off really well the first day. But i also found out some things that i dont really know how to feel or what to do???

Jessica, is 20 (i am 19) no big deal, but i found out she had been dating someone for a year now. thats kool but, seeing he is 31 years old that dont seem right????? she also lives with him????

I really dont see what a 31 year old man has to offer a 19 year old girl, and vis versa, dont know what she sees in him?

She dont like living at her house so i think that might just a scap coat for her to get away, but again im not sure



anyhow sorry for th elong typing, what should i do?? please i need someone to talk to, should i persue her??? leave her be??

thanks
BC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm 41 and I have a lot to offer a 19 year old - obviously more than a 19 year old man. That is beside the point.

This 19 year old ho lives with a man, and that is that!!! Do you want her to come live with you now???

BTW, hos rarely have age limits - if they like u they want u!!
 

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Look, you obviously don't feel right about this girl. If you have to get online and post a question regarding "Should I or not?" Chances are, you shouldn't.
That's my two cents.
 

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yeah i guess your righ tabout that.
just came on here looking for some advise. thanks
 
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