"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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in need of HELP!!!Cought up in a messed up situation

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Heres my situation. i work a dealership, a new girl started "Jessica", who I am very attracted to. I have met her, and talked for a few min hear and there. Her sister"Erin" who i am good friends with introduced me to her, and she too works there.

I got to talking with my friend(erin) about jessica, and found out alot about her, and it sounds like we like alot fo the same things, and we actually HIt it off really well the first day. But i also found out some things that i dont really know how to feel or what to do???

Jessica, is 20 (i am 19) no big deal, but i found out she had been dating someone for a year now. thats kool but, seeing he is 31 years old that dont seem right????? she also lives with him????

I really dont see what a 31 year old man has to offer a 19 year old girl, and vis versa, dont know what she sees in him?

She dont like living at her house so i think that might just a scap coat for her to get away, but again im not sure



anyhow sorry for th elong typing, what should i do?? please i need someone to talk to, should i persue her??? leave her be??

thanks
BC
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm 41 and I have a lot to offer a 19 year old - obviously more than a 19 year old man. That is beside the point.

This 19 year old ho lives with a man, and that is that!!! Do you want her to come live with you now???

BTW, hos rarely have age limits - if they like u they want u!!
 
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Look, you obviously don't feel right about this girl. If you have to get online and post a question regarding "Should I or not?" Chances are, you shouldn't.
That's my two cents.
 
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yeah i guess your righ tabout that.
just came on here looking for some advise. thanks
 
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