"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alright bros heres the problem-

awhile back my friend, a Natural, started throwing parties. I met a couple of girls who are all friends. I picked one girl in the group as my target. However, while using some value demonstrating techniques I began getting IOIs from her best friend. Needless to say i drove her friend home because she needed a ride and before dropping her off she made out with me. She is a good-looking girl but not my original target. Well a couple weeks later i began to get a response from my initail target and have since then been messing around with her. The problem is that her best friend still calls me and continuosly hits on me. I flirt back but i dont want to mess things up with the initial target or worse end their friendship. Is there any way i could use this angle to my advantage? suggestions? comments? Im looking for some feedback.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nice call. lol

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Fvck them both.
lol, usually I read the first response instead of the initial post to get a feel of what's going on. I so thought you meant NEXT em.

---and this is why I hate php code--- No undo button...

Well I guess I'll just try to write that again, it never comes out as good after I rewrite my suggestions.

Livestrong, go on and have some fun. Screw inviting them to a bar, AMOGing may not be your thing, nor isolating, or planning 3somes. Invite them to a party, a personal party, and have some games involved with a few of your and their friends.

Go to a novelty store and pick out a few of the games their. Something to keep the air right, card games can be played one on one, or in a group... Board games are for the entire crowd, and excitemtn has to be established first, and everybody has to be in an AMOG state, so take your choice of environment.

I prefer the card games, boardgames unless they are pure pressure point intellectualism, I have to AMOG myself:p

The last two games I bought wet by the names of "hot date" and "girls night out". I regularly take the girls night out to the bar and stir the waters;) "hot date" is just that though, and everybody's got to be in the mood if it's going to be a group game. Alcohol is always an anti inhibitor;) Shy girls make the best bed fellows.

I can tell you won't have any problems with initiating a party with the girls, nor finding a place. The problem is with destroying the jealousy barrier, and allowing open competition for your approval.

How do they react around you when you three are altogether, and how physical is their relationship around eachother?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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