"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alright bros heres the problem-

awhile back my friend, a Natural, started throwing parties. I met a couple of girls who are all friends. I picked one girl in the group as my target. However, while using some value demonstrating techniques I began getting IOIs from her best friend. Needless to say i drove her friend home because she needed a ride and before dropping her off she made out with me. She is a good-looking girl but not my original target. Well a couple weeks later i began to get a response from my initail target and have since then been messing around with her. The problem is that her best friend still calls me and continuosly hits on me. I flirt back but i dont want to mess things up with the initial target or worse end their friendship. Is there any way i could use this angle to my advantage? suggestions? comments? Im looking for some feedback.

-Livestrong
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nice call. lol

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Fvck them both.
lol, usually I read the first response instead of the initial post to get a feel of what's going on. I so thought you meant NEXT em.

---and this is why I hate php code--- No undo button...

Well I guess I'll just try to write that again, it never comes out as good after I rewrite my suggestions.

Livestrong, go on and have some fun. Screw inviting them to a bar, AMOGing may not be your thing, nor isolating, or planning 3somes. Invite them to a party, a personal party, and have some games involved with a few of your and their friends.

Go to a novelty store and pick out a few of the games their. Something to keep the air right, card games can be played one on one, or in a group... Board games are for the entire crowd, and excitemtn has to be established first, and everybody has to be in an AMOG state, so take your choice of environment.

I prefer the card games, boardgames unless they are pure pressure point intellectualism, I have to AMOG myself:p

The last two games I bought wet by the names of "hot date" and "girls night out". I regularly take the girls night out to the bar and stir the waters;) "hot date" is just that though, and everybody's got to be in the mood if it's going to be a group game. Alcohol is always an anti inhibitor;) Shy girls make the best bed fellows.

I can tell you won't have any problems with initiating a party with the girls, nor finding a place. The problem is with destroying the jealousy barrier, and allowing open competition for your approval.

How do they react around you when you three are altogether, and how physical is their relationship around eachother?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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