"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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alright bros heres the problem-

awhile back my friend, a Natural, started throwing parties. I met a couple of girls who are all friends. I picked one girl in the group as my target. However, while using some value demonstrating techniques I began getting IOIs from her best friend. Needless to say i drove her friend home because she needed a ride and before dropping her off she made out with me. She is a good-looking girl but not my original target. Well a couple weeks later i began to get a response from my initail target and have since then been messing around with her. The problem is that her best friend still calls me and continuosly hits on me. I flirt back but i dont want to mess things up with the initial target or worse end their friendship. Is there any way i could use this angle to my advantage? suggestions? comments? Im looking for some feedback.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice call. lol

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Fvck them both.
lol, usually I read the first response instead of the initial post to get a feel of what's going on. I so thought you meant NEXT em.

---and this is why I hate php code--- No undo button...

Well I guess I'll just try to write that again, it never comes out as good after I rewrite my suggestions.

Livestrong, go on and have some fun. Screw inviting them to a bar, AMOGing may not be your thing, nor isolating, or planning 3somes. Invite them to a party, a personal party, and have some games involved with a few of your and their friends.

Go to a novelty store and pick out a few of the games their. Something to keep the air right, card games can be played one on one, or in a group... Board games are for the entire crowd, and excitemtn has to be established first, and everybody has to be in an AMOG state, so take your choice of environment.

I prefer the card games, boardgames unless they are pure pressure point intellectualism, I have to AMOG myself:p

The last two games I bought wet by the names of "hot date" and "girls night out". I regularly take the girls night out to the bar and stir the waters;) "hot date" is just that though, and everybody's got to be in the mood if it's going to be a group game. Alcohol is always an anti inhibitor;) Shy girls make the best bed fellows.

I can tell you won't have any problems with initiating a party with the girls, nor finding a place. The problem is with destroying the jealousy barrier, and allowing open competition for your approval.

How do they react around you when you three are altogether, and how physical is their relationship around eachother?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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