Hi guys,
Been seeing this girl for around 5 months.....
In recent weeks she kept pushing for the relationship, last week it was made offical.
I never liked being "offical" only because it makes me feel like i have a tag on me which says fun is over.
This last week since it has been offical I feel like as though I have been overanalysing **** way too much....almost obsessive or needy like. It's asif it has gone from "entertain her" to "keep her" - Maybe she has pulled back a little because we are now offical??? or maybe I really am just looking into this too much. I don't want this screwing **** up over insecurities.
The whole time before this when i was seeing her i couldnt give a damn....I was just happy to spend time with her and fuk the life out of her.
Now I notice whenever she doesnt call or text(we communicate everyday and see eachother a fair bit, but not for too long) or if a text seems short I start looking into it way too much.....spray me with AFC or whatever the fcuk you guys want.....but seriously WTF why am I finding this to be a problem since we were made "offical" I feel like now I have to walk on eggshells.
At the start it felt like....how can I enjoy her, how can I make her want me, how can I **** her. It was fun, it still is fun! But now I feel all serious and im not liking it because i know it can cause damage....it's like i know what to avoid but im so scared of it im going to do it anyway lol wtf.
Now the last few days I have been feeling like....how can i keep her.
Anybody??? Please help me get this **** out of my mind, it really is not healthy. I want my old mindset back as how i were when I was seeing her......cheers.
Been seeing this girl for around 5 months.....
In recent weeks she kept pushing for the relationship, last week it was made offical.
I never liked being "offical" only because it makes me feel like i have a tag on me which says fun is over.
This last week since it has been offical I feel like as though I have been overanalysing **** way too much....almost obsessive or needy like. It's asif it has gone from "entertain her" to "keep her" - Maybe she has pulled back a little because we are now offical??? or maybe I really am just looking into this too much. I don't want this screwing **** up over insecurities.
The whole time before this when i was seeing her i couldnt give a damn....I was just happy to spend time with her and fuk the life out of her.
Now I notice whenever she doesnt call or text(we communicate everyday and see eachother a fair bit, but not for too long) or if a text seems short I start looking into it way too much.....spray me with AFC or whatever the fcuk you guys want.....but seriously WTF why am I finding this to be a problem since we were made "offical" I feel like now I have to walk on eggshells.
At the start it felt like....how can I enjoy her, how can I make her want me, how can I **** her. It was fun, it still is fun! But now I feel all serious and im not liking it because i know it can cause damage....it's like i know what to avoid but im so scared of it im going to do it anyway lol wtf.
Now the last few days I have been feeling like....how can i keep her.
Anybody??? Please help me get this **** out of my mind, it really is not healthy. I want my old mindset back as how i were when I was seeing her......cheers.