"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kyontate17

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Ook here it goes, Well im dating my girl 3 years and i guess everybody is cool with me but her mom (early 40's latina no job) is the one im confuse with like for examples: one day i went to go visit my girl at her house as soon i got to the house her mom comes out of the bathroom with just a towel around her body we both look at each but she runs back in there and start laughing about it, i thought i was gonna get in huge trouble or something but her mom told me it was fine. Another time was when i was taking my girls things to the apartment her mom was looking at me but i didn't look back at her or didn't talk to her at all the whole time. Next thing you know she tell my gf that she feels sad because i didn't look at her to say hi or didn't talk to her.her mother doesnt get alot attention from her husband at all, like her mom will always tell my gf and i that she doesnt want to be with her husband anymore and her mom will get mad at my gf and tells me and then i tell her mom lets talk about so when she comes she wants to talk about how her husband is towards her and other subject not even about my girl at all:confused: lots of times this happened.when she wants me to come over to watch movies with the her and the kids the dood will get mad and i didnt go but her mom tell my gf that she will be mad if i dont i always laugh because i didnt care but i go always. please tell me what her mom want from thanks for your time:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So she waiting for the right time to be alone?, or she want me to approach to her?
 
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So your telling me that older women doesn't tell you what they want up front and what us to find out ourselves?
 
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