"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In Confusion...

Kyontate17

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Ook here it goes, Well im dating my girl 3 years and i guess everybody is cool with me but her mom (early 40's latina no job) is the one im confuse with like for examples: one day i went to go visit my girl at her house as soon i got to the house her mom comes out of the bathroom with just a towel around her body we both look at each but she runs back in there and start laughing about it, i thought i was gonna get in huge trouble or something but her mom told me it was fine. Another time was when i was taking my girls things to the apartment her mom was looking at me but i didn't look back at her or didn't talk to her at all the whole time. Next thing you know she tell my gf that she feels sad because i didn't look at her to say hi or didn't talk to her.her mother doesnt get alot attention from her husband at all, like her mom will always tell my gf and i that she doesnt want to be with her husband anymore and her mom will get mad at my gf and tells me and then i tell her mom lets talk about so when she comes she wants to talk about how her husband is towards her and other subject not even about my girl at all:confused: lots of times this happened.when she wants me to come over to watch movies with the her and the kids the dood will get mad and i didnt go but her mom tell my gf that she will be mad if i dont i always laugh because i didnt care but i go always. please tell me what her mom want from thanks for your time:D
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So she waiting for the right time to be alone?, or she want me to approach to her?
 
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So your telling me that older women doesn't tell you what they want up front and what us to find out ourselves?
 
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