"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I found a pair of ray-ban sun glasses while waiting for my anatomy class. I think they made me look like a cop but decided to take them anyway. good thing to. I'm sitting there minding my own business and an HB9 sits down next to me. I turn to her and say

Me: I just found these sunglasses. I think they make me look even sexier. What do you think?
Hb9: well if you think they look good that's all that matters.
Me: true but I'm also 100% confident that if I were to wear jorts everyone would look at my butt all day.
hb9: (she laughs and looks at my pants)
Me: hey, my eyes are up here.
hb9: (laughs and apologizes)
Me: anyway... I need an unbiased opinion on them.
Hb9: I think you have really nice eyes. I wouldn't cover them.
Me: finally, an honest opinion. High five!

She couldn't stop touching my arm all class and wanted to talk all through the lecture and had this big goofy smile on her face the whole time. She even wanted to hang out after class but I had work. so she actually asked for my phone number.

I may have to try this bit again. What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah sure. good opening. but. what might work for one may not work on another.

keep the attitude but your openings could vary.
 
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It worked because it was spontaneous and not contrived. You were flowing.

Don't ask how to manufacture a similar situation; ask how to flow more.
 
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LOL, I like it, that was pretty good,, loved the "hey, my eyes are up here" classic.. keep up the good work, it's stuff like this that they eat up, just keep the confidence up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rubato said:
I'm definitely stealing that tomorrow.... pure gold!
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ok thats exactly what everyone is saying NOT to do.


its not the words that made this interaction a success. its the natural flow.
 
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garruk said:
ok thats exactly what everyone is saying NOT to do.


its not the words that made this interaction a success. its the natural flow.
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All right, I'll follow Vice's suggestion. How do you flow more

(I do think though that this would work in multiple situations if the man had the right frame)
 
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I might start carrying sunglasses for this purpose haha.
 
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