eecumstains
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anyone else have a disability?
how do you deal with it?
how do you deal with it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
in a wheelchair
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bootlegger
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compete in the special olympics. Chicks did athletes.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
why dont you compete in the olympics, wait a second its not that easy! he can do sports, why do you say special olympics asuming that the fact your disabled means you can compete, odnt you think maybe jusy maybe the competion is quite stiff!
Mr. Mystery II
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I don't know anyone in a wheelchair, but I know a guy thats deaf and he lays things down. I'm sure there are lots of chicks out there curious at least with guys in wheelchairs.
Don't let your disability discourage you. If anything, chicks will probably dig you more if your confident and disabled. They will wonder why someone that disabled could have such an aura about them, and they will wanna get to know you better.
Mr. Mystery
Don't let your disability discourage you. If anything, chicks will probably dig you more if your confident and disabled. They will wonder why someone that disabled could have such an aura about them, and they will wanna get to know you better.
Mr. Mystery
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
eecumstains
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christ! i hope i can score a better looking girl than him!
Pugsley_f5
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Hey eecum,
I seriously feel for you man, You seem like a cool guy, just starting out and an AFC, you can do whatever the F*ck you want to and put ur mind to, you can have a 9 or 10 chick any day of the week.....no ones perfect bro you don't need to be either, read the DJ bible heres the link
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
read up as much as you can my man, and apply, God made you handicapped for a reason, most likely so you can blaze a trail for others to follow and be an amazing inspiration that people can look at and follow and be inspired and motivated out of their mind, use your disability as your greatest strength and you will accomplish anyhting you believe you can...... I apologize for them closing your posts, some of the responses were kinda harsh, I feel for you and believe in you , I want to hear from you 3 months from now and having soo many women on your nutz that you have to fight them off with a stick....that would inspire me and MANY others, become a DJ and make us proud and inspire us.
I started just where you did and It has helped me soo much...
"In every adversity there is a seed of an equal or greater benefit"
KEEP ME UP TO DATE ON WHAT HAPPENS WITH YOU MY BROTHER
Pugs
I seriously feel for you man, You seem like a cool guy, just starting out and an AFC, you can do whatever the F*ck you want to and put ur mind to, you can have a 9 or 10 chick any day of the week.....no ones perfect bro you don't need to be either, read the DJ bible heres the link
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
read up as much as you can my man, and apply, God made you handicapped for a reason, most likely so you can blaze a trail for others to follow and be an amazing inspiration that people can look at and follow and be inspired and motivated out of their mind, use your disability as your greatest strength and you will accomplish anyhting you believe you can...... I apologize for them closing your posts, some of the responses were kinda harsh, I feel for you and believe in you , I want to hear from you 3 months from now and having soo many women on your nutz that you have to fight them off with a stick....that would inspire me and MANY others, become a DJ and make us proud and inspire us.
I started just where you did and It has helped me soo much...
"In every adversity there is a seed of an equal or greater benefit"
KEEP ME UP TO DATE ON WHAT HAPPENS WITH YOU MY BROTHER
Pugs
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diplomatic_lie
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With a nickname like that, I think you'd fit into the special olympics.
Mr. Mystery II
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Jesus Christ Superstar! Alittle melodramatic don't you think Pug's? Hahaha!
eecum:
I'm not gonna feel sorry for, because theres no reason to. Don't feel sorry for yourself, have pride in who you are and make your life what you want it to be.
Mr. Mystery
Yeah, people think that someone in a wheelcrair is somehow different to people who are not. The only difference is that the other person can fully use his legs and the other doesn't.
Yes, the world is made for those who ain't disabled to do things majority can do, but hey, that's a challenge for you. And for us here, we all love challenges.
PS. And at least it gives you certain kind of advantage to see who is shallow b!tch and who isn't in the first place right when you meet them.
Pugsley_f5
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"Get er done" Buddy
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SDFUandDie
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I never known anyone in a wheel chair, but I am sure you get genuine females when you do get them.
Them kind of females are the ones you want. One that wants you for you and not what you offer.
good luck bro!
Them kind of females are the ones you want. One that wants you for you and not what you offer.
good luck bro!
LuvMyArmyMan
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Actually, he cheated on his wife with her secretary. And she almost left him and got a divorce but then he wouldnt have been elected president. But he still fooled around on the side like almost all of our presidents.