eecumstains
Don Juan
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anyone else have a disability?
how do you deal with it?
how do you deal with it?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
why dont you compete in the olympics, wait a second its not that easy! he can do sports, why do you say special olympics asuming that the fact your disabled means you can compete, odnt you think maybe jusy maybe the competion is quite stiff!Originally posted by bootlegger
compete in the special olympics. Chicks did athletes.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
\Originally posted by ManOMan
Franklin Roosevelt was our president and in a wheel chair
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Jesus Christ Superstar! Alittle melodramatic don't you think Pug's? Hahaha!Originally posted by Pugsley_f5
Hey eecum,
I seriously feel for you man, You seem like a cool guy, just starting out and an AFC, you can do whatever the F*ck you want to and put ur mind to, you can have a 9 or 10 chick any day of the week.....no ones perfect bro you don't need to be either, read the DJ bible heres the link
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
read up as much as you can my man, and apply, God made you handicapped for a reason, most likely so you can blaze a trail for others to follow and be an amazing inspiration that people can look at and follow and be inspired and motivated out of their mind, use your disability as your greatest strength and you will accomplish anyhting you believe you can...... I apologize for them closing your posts, some of the responses were kinda harsh, I feel for you and believe in you , I want to hear from you 3 months from now and having soo many women on your nutz that you have to fight them off with a stick....that would inspire me and MANY others, become a DJ and make us proud and inspire us.
I started just where you did and It has helped me soo much...
"In every adversity there is a seed of an equal or greater benefit"
KEEP ME UP TO DATE ON WHAT HAPPENS WITH YOU MY BROTHER
Pugs
Yeah, people think that someone in a wheelcrair is somehow different to people who are not. The only difference is that the other person can fully use his legs and the other doesn't.I'm not gonna feel sorry for, because theres no reason to. Don't feel sorry for yourself, have pride in who you are and make your life what you want it to be.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
With a nickname like that, I think you'd fit into the special olympics.
Actually, he cheated on his wife with her secretary. And she almost left him and got a divorce but then he wouldnt have been elected president. But he still fooled around on the side like almost all of our presidents.Originally posted by eecumstains
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christ! i hope i can score a better looking girl than him!