In a way this site hurt me

[bud_2005]

Ok, before I got to this site I was fairly successful with girls but I came here because I hadn't had one in a while. Before I came here I would just go do it and ask a girl out. After I came here I started thinking too much. Examples=you must have eye contact before you approach, you have to do a lot of flirting, kino, and I learned that rejection happens more often than i thought ( I was 3 for 3).

Now I'm too scared of being rejected. I start thinking the approach has to be perfect and you have to say the right stuff so I just end up not approaching. Anybody else have this problem(probably not)

 

[oakraiderz2]

No, its your fault. If shyt was working at first then whyd you change it and shyt?

 

[bud_2005]

Well I guess because when I started freshman year I had a lot of girls flocking towards me but then they kind of stopped so I thought i had to change something

 

[triple_ultima]

Christ man, you're really overanalyzing. Being a DJ is not about having cold, calculated moves and thinking everything out, step by step. Being a Don Juan is not supposed to be paralyzing; it should set you free to be the person you really are.

You don't HAVE to do anything any specific way. Stop thinking that you HAVE to do it RIGHT. If you worry about that too much, you will be the worst DJ to ever disgrace these boards. Instead, concentrate on what works for you.

I guess you're in high school now, where the atmosphere is completely different than middle school. Most likely the approaches you've used in the past will not be as effective anymore. However, instead of doing everything by the Bible, experiment. That's what high school is best used for. Try everything you can think of, and then use what works best.

And please, don't blame anything on this site. I think almost everyone will agree that this site has completely turned their life around, at least that's what it did to me (if you don't feel the same, shut up because I don't care). Use the information contained here and in the Bible to enhance your life, but try to make it so that it becomes part of you, and thinking about it is not required. Then you will be a Master Don Juan.

 

[dbot]

The tips we give are only there to IMPROVE your success rate. We never said that you'll get rejected for sure if you don't follow our rules. Remember, there are plenty of AFCs out there getting laid

 

[Cogent Ops.]

I know what you're saying bud. Before I came here I wasn't approaching girls or doing anything else to get some pvssy, so I guess it didn't hurt me... it just didn't help me. I read the bible over and over again and I knew my ****, and for like a year I just thought waaaay too much about every little thing.

Don Juan on the site, AFC off of it: Alright, you know your crap on the site. You can give advice with the best of them. But when you are off the site, you resort back to the AFC ways. You read the bible and you know it in and out. Now start PRACTICING it. Start by joining the Bootcamp.

^^ thats from crazykid's recent post, and thats how I was. Very recently I have FINALLY forced myself to go out and practice everything I read, and let me tell you, it is the ONLY way to advance in the game.

I pretty much quit reading any post that give advice about the picky little things. I am concentrating more on mindset now.