"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In a pickle

CoolCat5191

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there is this girl that just broke up with her boyfriend after like a year like a month ago. I started to talk to this girl for like 2 weeks she started to like me alot as did i, we went on alot of dates and did our thing. we both thought we were perfect for eachother. But last week i had to break up from her because since im in Narcotics anonymus and all im not alowed to drink and she told me that drinking is a huge part of her life and partying is her thing. I regret this very badly and miss her alot. The thing is that 4 days later she is already putting stuff that she loves this other guy now. Is this to get back at me? Does she want me back? please help thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Moofahsa

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If it was such a big part of her life then how come it took you so long to see it?

You didn't have to break it off, you chose to.
 

Fenderules

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and a good choice you did. dont go downt that road with her.........you know were it leads.


and if she wanted you bad enough, she would have not gone for another guy right away. Your just the catch of the week.
 
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