"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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there is this girl that just broke up with her boyfriend after like a year like a month ago. I started to talk to this girl for like 2 weeks she started to like me alot as did i, we went on alot of dates and did our thing. we both thought we were perfect for eachother. But last week i had to break up from her because since im in Narcotics anonymus and all im not alowed to drink and she told me that drinking is a huge part of her life and partying is her thing. I regret this very badly and miss her alot. The thing is that 4 days later she is already putting stuff that she loves this other guy now. Is this to get back at me? Does she want me back? please help thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moofahsa

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If it was such a big part of her life then how come it took you so long to see it?

You didn't have to break it off, you chose to.
 
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and a good choice you did. dont go downt that road with her.........you know were it leads.


and if she wanted you bad enough, she would have not gone for another guy right away. Your just the catch of the week.
 
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