"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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in a p!ssy mood i ended up looking like a stalker..haha

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hahahahah
friday: my girl *maybe-soon-possibly gf* calls me up n we talk n i findout shes got work till late. We made plans to either chill Saturday night, or sunday. i forget whcih....i got too stoned[3 times] within the next 4 hours n i forgot which.
She goes to a diff school btw, so its ahrd to see eachother.
at first i thought it was saturday night after she got off work that we were supposed to chill. Her cellphone is broken..so i called her house.
Her mom tells me shes at Dianes house. Diane is a mutual friend whose # i DO NOT have.
So my boy and i decide its a good idea to go driving realyl fast down twisty roads. that was entertaining for like a half hour.
then we come up with the grand idea: call someone and get Dianes #.

...what a bad fvckin idea. but i specifically went out to that area to chill with ehr that night[we have a problem of always being to busy to hangout with one-another]..and my bad mood pushed me to do it lol.

the second i called Diane, my girl just looks at he rn goes "he knows I'm here, doesn't he."
I totally feel like this was the most stalker-like weird move ever. and i really shouldn't have done it.

any tips towards fixing this little...weirdness? I think i'll call her in a fe days n explain how i was too stoned n forgot the plans, n acted weird cause i couldn't chill sunday anyways[true.]

yeah son. diane told me what she said lol. so i bet i look like the weirdest kid alive.:confused:
-pat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know, it was a bad move. now how to correct it?
 
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