"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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in a p!ssy mood i ended up looking like a stalker..haha

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hahahahah
friday: my girl *maybe-soon-possibly gf* calls me up n we talk n i findout shes got work till late. We made plans to either chill Saturday night, or sunday. i forget whcih....i got too stoned[3 times] within the next 4 hours n i forgot which.
She goes to a diff school btw, so its ahrd to see eachother.
at first i thought it was saturday night after she got off work that we were supposed to chill. Her cellphone is broken..so i called her house.
Her mom tells me shes at Dianes house. Diane is a mutual friend whose # i DO NOT have.
So my boy and i decide its a good idea to go driving realyl fast down twisty roads. that was entertaining for like a half hour.
then we come up with the grand idea: call someone and get Dianes #.

...what a bad fvckin idea. but i specifically went out to that area to chill with ehr that night[we have a problem of always being to busy to hangout with one-another]..and my bad mood pushed me to do it lol.

the second i called Diane, my girl just looks at he rn goes "he knows I'm here, doesn't he."
I totally feel like this was the most stalker-like weird move ever. and i really shouldn't have done it.

any tips towards fixing this little...weirdness? I think i'll call her in a fe days n explain how i was too stoned n forgot the plans, n acted weird cause i couldn't chill sunday anyways[true.]

yeah son. diane told me what she said lol. so i bet i look like the weirdest kid alive.:confused:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i know, it was a bad move. now how to correct it?
 
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