Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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In a gray zone

alwayslead8821

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I was doing really good for a long time there and then I am gettin in like a zone just were I used to be... I cant even read the stuff on this site and take stuff in like I could I don't know what the hell my problem is :cuss: .... I think I am hittin a walll that I'm trying to overcome but it has been hard. I know a lot of people hit this point I'm just wanted the advice of people that have overcome it... I have been starting to get really frustrated cause I was doing so good and I went backwards. Any advice is appreciated... Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe Stud

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"This too shall pass", my friend.
or...
"When you're going through hell..... keep going"
 
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