"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In a gray zone

alwayslead8821

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I was doing really good for a long time there and then I am gettin in like a zone just were I used to be... I cant even read the stuff on this site and take stuff in like I could I don't know what the hell my problem is :cuss: .... I think I am hittin a walll that I'm trying to overcome but it has been hard. I know a lot of people hit this point I'm just wanted the advice of people that have overcome it... I have been starting to get really frustrated cause I was doing so good and I went backwards. Any advice is appreciated... Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Joe Stud

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"This too shall pass", my friend.
or...
"When you're going through hell..... keep going"
 
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