i need your advice, its something really important, since you guys know about this stuff. For the past couple of months i suspect that my g/f is cheating on me. I see all the classic signs.. Phone rings when im with her, she quikly rejects the call. Last 3 weeks or something she started going out with the "girls" on the weekends.. and when i ask her who are "the girls" she replies.. "some girls from work, you dont kno them". When its time that she is coming home i always go to her house (its only like a 40 minute train ride, no big deal) to see if she is coming with a taxi or someone dropping her off, but i always see her turning from the corner on foot so she probably comes from the street above us. One day i got her cellphone to check what time it is and she grabs it and yells "its not nice to mess with other people stuff".. Until now i havent talked to her open about what i suspect, maybe deep inside me i just dont want to learn the truth. Last night tho she got out with her "friends" and i couldnt hold myself. I decided to check.. A bit before the time she said she would return, i went on the street and waited to see if she comes with a taxi or if someone brings her back, so i am there hiding behind a car, waiting... suddenly a car appears i see her coming out of the passengers seat , and as i am about to stand up to see who is driving, my phone rings, and i have this really loud ringtone so i rush to pickup my iphone to close it, and it just slips off my hands and the screen broke... can a iphone screen be fixed or do i have to buy a new one, this piece of **** costs 400 bucks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
KontrollerX
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1. Dump that b!tch.
2. Apple will fix it but it'll cost you about $249 the last I checked but hey maybe I'm wrong and they're doing their free fix deal again, only way to know is to go to the apple store I guess.
2. Apple will fix it but it'll cost you about $249 the last I checked but hey maybe I'm wrong and they're doing their free fix deal again, only way to know is to go to the apple store I guess.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
When she's being that shady, DTB.
Moneytalks
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This joke is older than the internet.
First time I heard it, the guy's kickstand on his motorbike broke, second time someone threw a rock at his windscreen.
First time I heard it, the guy's kickstand on his motorbike broke, second time someone threw a rock at his windscreen.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kraytkiller
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Wow. You broke your iphone? I personally know how hard those are to break. How hard did you drop it?
Anyways, it does sound like she's cheating on you. Start emotionally separating yourself, while maybe trying to read stuff on her phone/catch her in the act.
Anyways, it does sound like she's cheating on you. Start emotionally separating yourself, while maybe trying to read stuff on her phone/catch her in the act.
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Damn, I love the cheating stories because I have stories to tell on both sides of the curve.Moneytalks said:This joke is older than the internet.
First time I heard it, the guy's kickstand on his motorbike broke, second time someone threw a rock at his windscreen.
I was already sinking my teeth in on this one only to ask myself "Is this dude serious?"