"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In a Dark Place...Help Me Reach the Acceptance Phase

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I must have read a different DJ bible. No one who read the one I did would even date a single mom. Doing so is like applying for a job, where your job will be to raise some other dude's child.

And also, how do you cheat when you aren't married? Every time I hear an unmarried man or woman talking about cheating, I am slightly insulted as a married man. A marriage is a public, lifelong commitment with your partner. If you didn't do that, then DING, you have no lifelong commitment. Don't act surprised when you prove that to yourself!

I see they posted that stupid "cheating" article on CNN (about other men who "cheated" on their "girlfriend") because of the Demi/Ashton situation. NOW ASHTON cheated. It is actually possible to cheat if you are married.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Update:

Ok, so I just recently had this text back-and-forth with her. Anybody care to decipher what's going on here?

HER: Don't ever go into my email again.

ME: say what?

ME: was that meant for me

HER: You know it was & I know you deleted the emails you sent me. I'm not saying anything else--just stop treating me like I'm an idiot. Enough already.

ME: Enough is right, don't know why your playing this game or why I would bother to delete my own emails

ME: and stop trying to make me the bad guy, i wish you the best, just be civil for chrissakes

HER: Shut up!

I should add that I DID delete those embarrassing emails, but I don't want her to know that of course.
 
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MikeBrown30 said:
Seriously, no contact, at all. If she texts you again, do not reply.
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Yeah, you're right. I've totally chumped out. For the past month its like I've had no control over myself.
 
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