"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In a Dark Place...Help Me Reach the Acceptance Phase

azanon

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I must have read a different DJ bible. No one who read the one I did would even date a single mom. Doing so is like applying for a job, where your job will be to raise some other dude's child.

And also, how do you cheat when you aren't married? Every time I hear an unmarried man or woman talking about cheating, I am slightly insulted as a married man. A marriage is a public, lifelong commitment with your partner. If you didn't do that, then DING, you have no lifelong commitment. Don't act surprised when you prove that to yourself!

I see they posted that stupid "cheating" article on CNN (about other men who "cheated" on their "girlfriend") because of the Demi/Ashton situation. NOW ASHTON cheated. It is actually possible to cheat if you are married.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cheeks

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Update:

Ok, so I just recently had this text back-and-forth with her. Anybody care to decipher what's going on here?

HER: Don't ever go into my email again.

ME: say what?

ME: was that meant for me

HER: You know it was & I know you deleted the emails you sent me. I'm not saying anything else--just stop treating me like I'm an idiot. Enough already.

ME: Enough is right, don't know why your playing this game or why I would bother to delete my own emails

ME: and stop trying to make me the bad guy, i wish you the best, just be civil for chrissakes

HER: Shut up!

I should add that I DID delete those embarrassing emails, but I don't want her to know that of course.
 
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Cheeks

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MikeBrown30 said:
Seriously, no contact, at all. If she texts you again, do not reply.
Yeah, you're right. I've totally chumped out. For the past month its like I've had no control over myself.
 
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