In a bit of a jam...

[seek&destroy]

There's this girl I like a lot and I want to go out with her, but the problem is that we are friends already. A mutual friend of ours has advised me to tell her how I feel and ask her if she is open to dating right now and if she would like to go out with me sometime, but to also let her know that if she rejects me, that I will not take it personally. Like she said..." it will hurt, but if you show that it affects you, you will only be hurting your friendship with her, and building tension between the two of you is the last thing you want to do. by showing her that rejection doesn't effect you, you will earn her respect because you are not chasing her around, and in the end that is what might make her reconsider"

what should I do?

 

[The Master Disaster]

Ask her out right now you got nothing to lose either your gonna be g/f and b/f or ur just going to be friends like normal. So go up to her and don't i repeat don't confess your feelings. Just get the mood set and just ask her out.

 

[Docs]

either this happens:

Ask -> Yes -> Yay. You Win
Ask -> No -> Life goes on. You Win

there.

 

[Anomalous]

You shouldn't have confessed how you felt, it GIVES HER THE POWER.

I would say don't ask her out, it can and PROBABLY RUIN THE RELATIONSHIP.
There are pletty of girls out there, but IF YOU MUST, GO INSANE WITH THE KINO.:woo:

 

[redbullfbu]

i wouldnt ask her out cuz if she says no it will be awkword after that. ease into it a lil bit. call her

you: hey my buddies and i were gonna do somethin tonight but we decided not to, how bout some dinner?
her: sure when?
you: in about half hour, ill come get u
her: great see ya then

if that works show up 15 minutes late.

if she says shes busy jus be like alrite cya later and try again next week with a different excuse to go out with her..