Jesse Pinkman
Master Don Juan
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Over the past couple of years, my game has started to improve and the results have started to roll in differently. Back in the day, I was relying on the apps alone to get a date with a 6 or 7 but by really going to the next level in game, I am getting women more in the 8 category in my life through some degree, even if as friends. Not at the level yet where I feel like I can pull a 9 or 10 but we will get there.
But I notice guys get told to do it in reverse and that is so wrong.
We tell men to improve their social lives and seek a brotherhood and all that and the women will come. I find that this is false. Most of the times, you just get drinking buddies. This is also why I think The Red Pill is a sham in some ways because it tells you that all men are your friends and women are the enemy but that's not true. Most of the times I find that dudes will turn on each other for the sake of p*ssy.
I used to do it this way too. In college, I was in a frat and I noticed that I had male "friends" and a social life which included interacted with meh looking girls.
Lately, I have noticed a shift.
By just having hot girls around me and interacting with me, it is like doors for social life open up left and right.
EVEN if I cold approach and other men see it.
I used to be too scared to talk to girls and relied on the apps. However, when I have gone up to hot girls and spoken to them at bars and clubs, even at times it hasn't gone anywhere, other dudes have noticed and acknowledged me for it. Some guys have tried to make small talk with me for it and I have been so focused on game itself that I drag them in with the guise of "hey man, I am gonna talk to those 3 girls right there, if you see it going well, come in and talk to the two I do not want".
Just from this, I have gained 3 good friends who have surprisingly been quite connected whether to nightlife or just wealthy.
Like dudes who would have never acknowledged me now want to be buddies and invite me to stuff because I am not afraid to talk to hot girls.
The thing is back when I wanted "powerful friends", I never got them. Now that I do not want quality male friends but just want to get better at game, I am getting better male friends as a result of not wanting them or a social life.
It's weird.
But I notice guys get told to do it in reverse and that is so wrong.
We tell men to improve their social lives and seek a brotherhood and all that and the women will come. I find that this is false. Most of the times, you just get drinking buddies. This is also why I think The Red Pill is a sham in some ways because it tells you that all men are your friends and women are the enemy but that's not true. Most of the times I find that dudes will turn on each other for the sake of p*ssy.
I used to do it this way too. In college, I was in a frat and I noticed that I had male "friends" and a social life which included interacted with meh looking girls.
Lately, I have noticed a shift.
By just having hot girls around me and interacting with me, it is like doors for social life open up left and right.
EVEN if I cold approach and other men see it.
I used to be too scared to talk to girls and relied on the apps. However, when I have gone up to hot girls and spoken to them at bars and clubs, even at times it hasn't gone anywhere, other dudes have noticed and acknowledged me for it. Some guys have tried to make small talk with me for it and I have been so focused on game itself that I drag them in with the guise of "hey man, I am gonna talk to those 3 girls right there, if you see it going well, come in and talk to the two I do not want".
Just from this, I have gained 3 good friends who have surprisingly been quite connected whether to nightlife or just wealthy.
Like dudes who would have never acknowledged me now want to be buddies and invite me to stuff because I am not afraid to talk to hot girls.
The thing is back when I wanted "powerful friends", I never got them. Now that I do not want quality male friends but just want to get better at game, I am getting better male friends as a result of not wanting them or a social life.
It's weird.