i've made some big damn improvements lately...i went from talking to no girls all year to seeing 3 different girls at the same time. one who im not interested in anymore, and the other two i just had a "date" with this week. im good at getting the covnersation going, they show some interest, lots of eye contact, lots of touching on the arm, hitting. but i havent been able to get myself to make a ****ing move. i went to movie with one of them last night...she was leaning on me, but i couldnt get myself to put my arm around her or get any kino going. guys gimme ur expereince with this. i guess i just have to suck it up and stop be ing a *****. too much negative talk in my head as soon as i think about making a move on any of them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
improvement..but still not there...
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