"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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improvement..but still not there...

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i've made some big damn improvements lately...i went from talking to no girls all year to seeing 3 different girls at the same time. one who im not interested in anymore, and the other two i just had a "date" with this week. im good at getting the covnersation going, they show some interest, lots of eye contact, lots of touching on the arm, hitting. but i havent been able to get myself to make a ****ing move. i went to movie with one of them last night...she was leaning on me, but i couldnt get myself to put my arm around her or get any kino going. guys gimme ur expereince with this. i guess i just have to suck it up and stop be ing a *****. too much negative talk in my head as soon as i think about making a move on any of them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, you just have to get over your fear of doing it. Like anything, you may not come off all that smooth the first few times, but it'll all work out in the longrun. After making a certain 'move' a few times, it loses most of it's scariness and doesn't seem like a big deal at all.

You could always find little ways to build up to it, like putting your arm around female friends in a jokey way, etc.
 
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haha u basically answered ur own question. nut up and do it. but i'm pretty sure just about everyone gets in this situation early in his djing. ur just overthinking it. and its not like she's gonna be like ew gross cooties or anything like that obviously if 1)she's at the movies with u... and 2)she's leanin up against u and ****
 
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