i've made some big damn improvements lately...i went from talking to no girls all year to seeing 3 different girls at the same time. one who im not interested in anymore, and the other two i just had a "date" with this week. im good at getting the covnersation going, they show some interest, lots of eye contact, lots of touching on the arm, hitting. but i havent been able to get myself to make a ****ing move. i went to movie with one of them last night...she was leaning on me, but i couldnt get myself to put my arm around her or get any kino going. guys gimme ur expereince with this. i guess i just have to suck it up and stop be ing a *****. too much negative talk in my head as soon as i think about making a move on any of them.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
improvement..but still not there...
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