"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Improve your looks, here's how!

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These are some simple ideas I thought up of, there the things girls point out most frequently about guys and therefore give you more attention (even if your short).

1) work out, this is obvious, but don't get too bulky
2) get piercings, at least one cool one. I prefer the eyebrow piercing but my work told me no!
3) get a new hairstyle, those long skater/surfer dude hairstyles seem to work ... but make sure it works with the right colors and texture
4) fake colored contacts from walmart, they are only like 20 bucks!!

That's all I can think of right now... don't go metro for sure unless you HAVE the looks already
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skin care- face mask once a week, n go get spot pills from the doc n some expensive 3 step skin care.

your scent. Make it distinctive fresh.

cloths...depends on what grls your going for. Going for a goth grl dress like a goth.

nice foot wear.

not too much jewellery a watch will do, chains look rufffff (in dog voice).

if ya gonna get a tatoo make sure its a tidy 1 cause they can mess ya appearance up and make you look ruffff.

tan def helps.

white teeth so get the best electric toothbrush u can afford.

weights def.
 

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If you are going for a goth chick, dress like you.

If you are going for a business woman, dress like you.

If you are going for the girl next door, dress like you.

Don't sell out for p*ssy, make p*ssy sell out for you!

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Recommended fake contacts is the worst advice I have heard in a long time. People need to accept themselves for who they are... sure toning up a bit, getting a tan, keeping your teeth clean etc are fine since it is all still natural, getting colored contacts could start to serve as a crutch and even force people into being more self conscious then they were and they will start to dislike their own eyes. Stay natural guys, nothing wrong with improving your body as long as it's not artificial garbage.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by gOLDENBoy83

@ fake colored contact lenses

I don't like this bit of advice.
For many women, a man's eyes are important. And if you end up in a LTR with one, then she won't be too happy to see that this detail she liked about you was fake.

That's funny... I got so many people asking if my fake blue ones were my real eye color and it was an excellent convo starter... but my g/f after a year made me switch
 

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yes chapped lips is of importance, no girl likes to see a guy with dry lips, so get some chapstick.

piercings?? it may not be appropriate at times, such as job interviews or other occasions. plus when you reach that age, you'll feel like it's pointless. i got a co-worker who's got 2 tattos since she was 15 she's 27 now and kinda wants to remove it.

yes uni-brow is disgusting also, pluck away if needed.

also if your skin is too dry and skin not generating enough natural oils, use moisterizer.

pluck out those nasty ear hairs too...if any of you have those....
INCLUDING nasty noise hair that may be sticking out and visible. i suggest getting a plucker for those unibrows/noisehairs/earhairs.

TEETH, make sure nothing gets stuck in your teet after a meal, always head to the bathroom after your meal to remove it. one time this wh0re pointed out i had something stuck in my teeth (from breakfast) which i forgot to check after eating...embarrassing really i went to the bathroom to clear it.

wear deodorant daily if possible, girls like to smell a fresh guy.
not some sweaty guy which may be presumed he hasnt taken a shower.

Messy hair is in now, so go grab some wax at a nearby pharmaxy. that **** is expensive, i got a small container for $5. on special occasions ill use that. regularly i use gel or moose to make it messy, which works also...but gel doesnt give you that natural look.

you got neckne or acne? neck-acne. well get rid of it. not a lot of girls like that. use soap daily to rinse thoroughly on your neck during hte morning. Or use your prefered facial wash on it too, which works.

Cut your nails every couple days, keep it well groomed as a guy's nails should always be. INCLUDING toe-nails.

clean your eye feces everymorning when you wake up. sometimes we'll even get it during hte middle of the day, so check in the mirror.

clean the inside of your ears daily, many of you may have some dry/wet earwax sitting on the visible part of your outer ear....

i guess those are the primary importance so far...
truth is this is all basic stuff you should all know by now, if u dont know about any of this, i suggest you expose yourself to the world and society to teach yourself how to groom
 

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Originally posted by gOLDENBoy83
* Use a tongue scraper and a mouth wash
* Use a bleaching liquid to whiten to teeth
* Care about your lips, they shouldn't be too dry. Consider using a moisturizing lip stick
* Avoid an "uni-brow" - use a pair of tweezers if you have to
* Use a good cologne and apply it to where to blood pulsates. I prefer the throat and the haunches
* Go to the steam room regularly. It will make your skin look fresher
* Avoid scall. go see a dermatologist if necessary.
* As a rule of thumb, remove all body hair except the hair on your scalp and some trimmed hair on your unit
* If you have pimples, try to get Roaccutane / Isotretinoine by all means necessary. It has some adverse effects, but heals your acne forever
* Don't buy too large T-shirts, pullovers etc. It should end at the belt line and you don't want to fit in there twice
* If you have a watch, check regularly if the glass is clean - a twinkling watch will make a bigger impression and looks new

@ fake colored contact lenses

I don't like this bit of advice.
For many women, a man's eyes are important. And if you end up in a LTR with one, then she won't be too happy to see that this detail she liked about you was fake.
Check if your watch face is clean, wax youself all over but just trim it on your unit. Use a tongue scraper. Use a good cologne and apply it to where to blood pulsates.

hahahahahhhahaha, this list is fukcing hilarious. Some of u dudes are the funniest dudes I have ever...........well not met, not seen, but read about. hahahaahahaha, I am still laughing.........
 

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haha, no need to get razzed up. I am not insulting you. I did explain it, just read the list. It is fukcing hilarious. :D
 
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If you have a watch, check regularly if the glass is clean
Hahahahaha.... sh!t you boys crack me up. Dude that was some funny sh!t. Hahahaha....... Jesus..

No really, you could just wrap it up in one sentence by saying:

"Take pride in your appearance." <------- All you need.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Care about your lips, they shouldn't be too dry. Consider using a moisturizing lip stick
I think i have what you are looking for

*zzzzip*

come here

;) :p
 
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