You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sigh. Please stay with your classmates on the highschool forum.Originally posted by Soma
Hey, play nice. You're hurting my feelings over here.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pretty girl. She is not doing well at the moment. Here's hoping she feels better.
Hey, that is my patented remark
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
And I thought *I* came up with that oneOriginally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Hey, that is my patented remark
I think dating in the pacific northwest has to be much worse than in Southern California. I went up to Portland on business and honestly, I don't think I saw more than a dozen women there I would consider doable. Plus the area was overrepresented by butch looking chicks. I'd hate to be a single guy trying to date there.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Heh - I'm actually a US man dating a US woman, but she has very traditional values and is pretty much as feminine as it gets. Being a lifetime Southern Cali kid (extreme Southern Cal, think San Diego County) I haven't really experienced the type of girls whom WestCoaster bad mouths - either that or I subconsciously ignore them
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
the other side of that is in SoCal, you've got a ton of pretty boys too. rich boys too. and pretty and rich boys. Hollywood, West Hollywood (faggot capital of the world), Beverly Hills, Brentwood, vicinity is fukking tough, tough, tough. you gotta have game if you're going for top notch, especially the club scene. chicks here are the best looking IN THE WORLD and they know it. they flocketh. serious, half will dizz you automatically if you don't drive a Benz, BMW, etc.
Um, thanks, I'll pass.Originally posted by stevera004
And I thought *I* came up with that one
The thread seems to have died a natural death, but it's interesting to note that no one stepped up and 'defended' the US woman. It could be that US men are taking their wonder-women for granted. Let's open up the floor to all those foreign men who are just dying to hook up with a wonderful US woman.
I've noticed that latinas don't tend to be as materialistic as other women. I've seen some fine azz latinas with guys that drive beat up chevys and toyotas.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
that's definitely true. lots of them here in LA. i prefer mexican chicks anyway. they know how to treat a man. but they're also jealous as hell.
I'm in L.A. too.