"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Impress Or Ask??

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Hey whatsup

well, theres this one girl and we kind of know each other, and yes i like her but i would like to know what you would do to get her if she like means everything to you....

1.Would you try to impress her and pull her to yourself slowly and slowly so that she'll come to you, if you get me.

or

2.Would you just ask her out and tell her you love her, something like that.

I'm really just trying to get your opniion on this, like what would you do if you're in this situation and please be specific when you choose 1 of the choices.
Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best friends? NAY

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DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER.

I assume you talk/interact with her semi often. Thier is almost no way you will get her.
I suggest dating other people. If she still means "everything" to you then she might be more attracted to you by the jelousy factor.
99.9999% chance this will jsut cause you heart ache if you keep pursuing a relationship. Just don't do it.
 
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well it doesnt matter if you got this major boner for this girl. Even if your obsess with her what ever you do dont tell her that you love her. Show her your intrested to get to know her but never straight out say you love her becuase u'll be creepin the hell out of her. i totaly agree with "Best friends? NAY" becuase its always good to have a couple of options avaible besides if she somehow break your heart becuase you screwd up by tellin her you love her then theres always those other options..then before you know it all the girls will be jealous heck they might even fight over you!
 
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Well, if this was any other girl I'd say you should just try to get a date out of her. You don't need to impress the heck out of her, nor do you need to express your love to her neither. However, in this case, since you said that she "means everything to you," I would forget about her and move on to other girls. By getting yourself into that mindset you are only setting yourself up for failure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always just try to be so amazing that they naturally like me. The key is to have fun.
 
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