"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Impress Or Ask??

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Hey whatsup

well, theres this one girl and we kind of know each other, and yes i like her but i would like to know what you would do to get her if she like means everything to you....

1.Would you try to impress her and pull her to yourself slowly and slowly so that she'll come to you, if you get me.

or

2.Would you just ask her out and tell her you love her, something like that.

I'm really just trying to get your opniion on this, like what would you do if you're in this situation and please be specific when you choose 1 of the choices.
Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best friends? NAY

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DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER.

I assume you talk/interact with her semi often. Thier is almost no way you will get her.
I suggest dating other people. If she still means "everything" to you then she might be more attracted to you by the jelousy factor.
99.9999% chance this will jsut cause you heart ache if you keep pursuing a relationship. Just don't do it.
 
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well it doesnt matter if you got this major boner for this girl. Even if your obsess with her what ever you do dont tell her that you love her. Show her your intrested to get to know her but never straight out say you love her becuase u'll be creepin the hell out of her. i totaly agree with "Best friends? NAY" becuase its always good to have a couple of options avaible besides if she somehow break your heart becuase you screwd up by tellin her you love her then theres always those other options..then before you know it all the girls will be jealous heck they might even fight over you!
 
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Well, if this was any other girl I'd say you should just try to get a date out of her. You don't need to impress the heck out of her, nor do you need to express your love to her neither. However, in this case, since you said that she "means everything to you," I would forget about her and move on to other girls. By getting yourself into that mindset you are only setting yourself up for failure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I always just try to be so amazing that they naturally like me. The key is to have fun.
 
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