"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Important: We are not the Borg.

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We are not the collective mind of the Borg. We are not controlled by a central authority. We do not think alike. We are individuals with independent opinions. The advice we provide, the counsel we offer, and the opinions we give do not represent in any way, shape, or form the advice, counsel, or opinions that are provided by others. We are not "the website". We are members of a community.

If this is your first experience on a bulletin board, you will undoubtedly feel as though the members of this community are united in some way towards a common goal. Often those new to this community will develop the opinion that we are an organization of men who just want get laid as often as possible. These newbies will also assume that becoming the suave Master Don Juan entails only appearances and "tricks of the trade".

There are a variety of personalities present in this community. Every one of us is here for different reasons. Some people are looking to change up their dreary lives. Some people seek validation of either their successes or follies. Some people search for comfort when they feel lost. Some people desire only to offer their insight into the female mind. And others remain after many years to exchange their youthful or experienced wisdom. There are also those who are desperate for sex whether due to the pressures of society or the limitations of their environment.

Every member of this community has something of value to contribute.

Yet, those seeking advice, counsel, or opinions should be wary of that which they receive. Be steadfast in your skepticism. Question perceived authorities. Be vigilant in thinking for yourself. Never accept advice, counsel, and/or opinions at face value. Always think before you act. Your life is in your hands, and only you are ultimately responsible for what you do.

Please remember that the individuals that comprise this community are people just like you and me. Treat them as people and work together if you must.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TONYMONTANA523

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I dont mean to be a jerk why is there all these science fiction allegories in here.
Maybe we should be trying to get away from all that sh*t. I do agree on your point here.
 

Bussey

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:box: Are we Storm Troopers though?... that's the question!

Lol leave it to an ******* to make a joke out of a seriously thought out post.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bussey

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TONYMONTANA523 said:
Look I said the post was cool but a little nerdy the borg yeah all the ladies love borg talk.
Was calling myself an ******* ;) Relax dude.
 

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Addendum: "Every member of this community has something of value to contribute when they contribute something of value." :rock:
 

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Your post reminds me of one of my favorite quotes of all time:

"Take what is useful, discard what is not" -- Bruce Lee

Addendum: "Every member of this community has something of value to contribute when they contribute something of value."
A bit of circular reasoning there, like saying "something has value only when it has value" ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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