"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Important: We are not the Borg.

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We are not the collective mind of the Borg. We are not controlled by a central authority. We do not think alike. We are individuals with independent opinions. The advice we provide, the counsel we offer, and the opinions we give do not represent in any way, shape, or form the advice, counsel, or opinions that are provided by others. We are not "the website". We are members of a community.

If this is your first experience on a bulletin board, you will undoubtedly feel as though the members of this community are united in some way towards a common goal. Often those new to this community will develop the opinion that we are an organization of men who just want get laid as often as possible. These newbies will also assume that becoming the suave Master Don Juan entails only appearances and "tricks of the trade".

There are a variety of personalities present in this community. Every one of us is here for different reasons. Some people are looking to change up their dreary lives. Some people seek validation of either their successes or follies. Some people search for comfort when they feel lost. Some people desire only to offer their insight into the female mind. And others remain after many years to exchange their youthful or experienced wisdom. There are also those who are desperate for sex whether due to the pressures of society or the limitations of their environment.

Every member of this community has something of value to contribute.

Yet, those seeking advice, counsel, or opinions should be wary of that which they receive. Be steadfast in your skepticism. Question perceived authorities. Be vigilant in thinking for yourself. Never accept advice, counsel, and/or opinions at face value. Always think before you act. Your life is in your hands, and only you are ultimately responsible for what you do.

Please remember that the individuals that comprise this community are people just like you and me. Treat them as people and work together if you must.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TONYMONTANA523

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I dont mean to be a jerk why is there all these science fiction allegories in here.
Maybe we should be trying to get away from all that sh*t. I do agree on your point here.
 

Bussey

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:box: Are we Storm Troopers though?... that's the question!

Lol leave it to an ******* to make a joke out of a seriously thought out post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bussey

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TONYMONTANA523 said:
Look I said the post was cool but a little nerdy the borg yeah all the ladies love borg talk.
Was calling myself an ******* ;) Relax dude.
 

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Addendum: "Every member of this community has something of value to contribute when they contribute something of value." :rock:
 

GirlCrazy

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Your post reminds me of one of my favorite quotes of all time:

"Take what is useful, discard what is not" -- Bruce Lee

Addendum: "Every member of this community has something of value to contribute when they contribute something of value."
A bit of circular reasoning there, like saying "something has value only when it has value" ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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