Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hiya guys, firstly want to say thanks to deangelo, im in my final year of university now and always had girls playing games with me etc, being funny on nights out etc etc,since reading the litreture the past 2 nights ive been out ive been getting smiles off the best looking girl in the club, my question is how long roughly is it safe to keep up that game of not looking at her enough etc when she is looking over, she ended up bumping in2 me after about 40mins last night but then when i went or a cigarette she must have thought i left and went herself, is it a good idea to wait till the girl starts knocking in2 u? in heinseight i would have just grabbed her at that point lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sebastionay said:
Hiya guys, firstly want to say thanks to deangelo, im in my final year of university now and always had girls playing games with me etc, being funny on nights out etc etc,since reading the litreture the past 2 nights ive been out ive been getting smiles off the best looking girl in the club, my question is how long roughly is it safe to keep up that game of not looking at her enough etc when she is looking over, she ended up bumping in2 me after about 40mins last night but then when i went or a cigarette she must have thought i left and went herself, is it a good idea to wait till the girl starts knocking in2 u? in heinseight i would have just grabbed her at that point lol

Are you sure you are in your final university year? I guess English is not your major.

Keep up the game for three and a half minutes of not looking at her, etc.
 

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nope im an engineer, and im not being awarded marks on this forum for correct spelling and grammer lol, thanks for the answer though :)
 
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