Hiya guys, firstly want to say thanks to deangelo, im in my final year of university now and always had girls playing games with me etc, being funny on nights out etc etc,since reading the litreture the past 2 nights ive been out ive been getting smiles off the best looking girl in the club, my question is how long roughly is it safe to keep up that game of not looking at her enough etc when she is looking over, she ended up bumping in2 me after about 40mins last night but then when i went or a cigarette she must have thought i left and went herself, is it a good idea to wait till the girl starts knocking in2 u? in heinseight i would have just grabbed her at that point lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
