Hiya guys, firstly want to say thanks to deangelo, im in my final year of university now and always had girls playing games with me etc, being funny on nights out etc etc,since reading the litreture the past 2 nights ive been out ive been getting smiles off the best looking girl in the club, my question is how long roughly is it safe to keep up that game of not looking at her enough etc when she is looking over, she ended up bumping in2 me after about 40mins last night but then when i went or a cigarette she must have thought i left and went herself, is it a good idea to wait till the girl starts knocking in2 u? in heinseight i would have just grabbed her at that point lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Important question
- Thread starter Wodan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
