"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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IMPORTANT: Make sure your eyebrows stay level when you talk!!!

MetalFortress

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Do this: videotape yourself talking to someone, or just talk to yourself in the mirror. Watch your eyebrows. Do they move inadvertantly when you talk?

Mine did. A LOT. So much so that my mom pointed out that I accidentily made a waitress uncomfortable, because she took it as me being overtly flirty. In other situations, the eyebrow motions can come off as being surprises, fearful, or uncertain, depending on the situation. If you are trying to be more cool, calm, aloof, and whatnot, this is murder. As for me, I AM cool, calm and aloof by nature, so this was giving off an impression of me being the opposite of who I am.

Before you go on your quest to keep your eyebrows level, do some homework. This needs to hit home. Watch a Bond movie, and observe his facial demeanor. Casino Royale happens to be what drove the point home for me. His consistently level eyebrows very much added to his alpha, calm, aloof demeanor.

If this is something you, upon self-examination, determine to be a problem, work on this. I guarantee you'll notice a difference in your interactions with chicks, and with people in general, too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm picturing Bert from Sesame Street....
 

MetalFortress

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Brak86 said:
I guess so, but this is such a minute detail that I'm not sure people are ready to work on this.
It's more of an intermediate tip. If you can't even talk to women, then forget it. But if you can, make sure you don't move your eyebrows a ton. I did it REALLY badly, and it messed things up pretty nicely in many cases.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Babnik

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I think you need to show emotion and facial expression can be a sign of interest.
If you keep them straight all the time - you will look cold and unapproachable.

Too much is bad, but when you smile or you are surprised - I think its OK...
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm picturing Bert from Sesame Street....
LOL!

You guys know they had to take them off of Sesame Street because everyone thought they were gay?
 

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I just wanna say that this one of the greatest tips ive ever received on this web site. I think my eyebrow movements were being used too much as well. I payed attention to it today and had one of the greatest days with girls and people I had to deal with. great tip thanks
 

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this is a horrible tip. you want to show expression in your face, this is such a bad tip...mods please remove this. How has this helped you, the waitress felt uncomfortable because she wasn't attracted to you, if you did a flirty facial expression and she was interested, then you wouldn't of had that problem. So work on your looks before you work on making your self into a mime.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ValleyDJing

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Overly flirty? Is there such a thing? You're mom is trying to keep you from getting layed man.
 

izza

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I can't believe it. I thought you were joking for sure, but this is actually a good tip and I move my eyebrows all the time. Maybe I should stop.

Izz
 

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I hope people don't become overly obsessed with the smaller details of life. The less time spent mulling over minute things, the better.

A clear head wins the day.
 

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Just walk around with a poker face all the time. And don't change the tonality of your voice either... this way people will never know what you're really thinking. haha
 
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