IMPORTANT: Make sure your eyebrows stay level when you talk!!!

[MetalFortress]

Do this: videotape yourself talking to someone, or just talk to yourself in the mirror. Watch your eyebrows. Do they move inadvertantly when you talk?

Mine did. A LOT. So much so that my mom pointed out that I accidentily made a waitress uncomfortable, because she took it as me being overtly flirty. In other situations, the eyebrow motions can come off as being surprises, fearful, or uncertain, depending on the situation. If you are trying to be more cool, calm, aloof, and whatnot, this is murder. As for me, I AM cool, calm and aloof by nature, so this was giving off an impression of me being the opposite of who I am.

Before you go on your quest to keep your eyebrows level, do some homework. This needs to hit home. Watch a Bond movie, and observe his facial demeanor. Casino Royale happens to be what drove the point home for me. His consistently level eyebrows very much added to his alpha, calm, aloof demeanor.

If this is something you, upon self-examination, determine to be a problem, work on this. I guarantee you'll notice a difference in your interactions with chicks, and with people in general, too.

 

[donpepot]

nice tip..:rockon:

 

[bartender]

Roger Moore was so ****ing cool.

 

[Brak86]

I guess so, but this is such a minute detail that I'm not sure people are ready to work on this.

The fact is, so many here barely even approach/flirt with women that much that such a piece of advice is so minute that it is inconsequential to give to a noobie. I also feel that voice tone and BL, which you should work at, will even itself out the more you DO stuff, like open, #close, be more social, take more risks, etc.

I don't know, I am happy that you are giving advice, but I'm not sure how helpful this will be. I'm sure in your case it helped you, though.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm picturing Bert from Sesame Street....

 

[MetalFortress]

I guess so, but this is such a minute detail that I'm not sure people are ready to work on this.

It's more of an intermediate tip. If you can't even talk to women, then forget it. But if you can, make sure you don't move your eyebrows a ton. I did it REALLY badly, and it messed things up pretty nicely in many cases.

 

[Babnik]

I think you need to show emotion and facial expression can be a sign of interest.
If you keep them straight all the time - you will look cold and unapproachable.

Too much is bad, but when you smile or you are surprised - I think its OK...

 

[realsmoothie]

I'm picturing Bert from Sesame Street....

LOL!

You guys know they had to take them off of Sesame Street because everyone thought they were gay?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

LOL!

You guys know they had to take them off of Sesame Street because everyone thought they were gay?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY7ELvBUrPk

 

[42-Colrath]

I just wanna say that this one of the greatest tips ive ever received on this web site. I think my eyebrow movements were being used too much as well. I payed attention to it today and had one of the greatest days with girls and people I had to deal with. great tip thanks

 

[eminence]

this is a horrible tip. you want to show expression in your face, this is such a bad tip...mods please remove this. How has this helped you, the waitress felt uncomfortable because she wasn't attracted to you, if you did a flirty facial expression and she was interested, then you wouldn't of had that problem. So work on your looks before you work on making your self into a mime.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Overly flirty? Is there such a thing? You're mom is trying to keep you from getting layed man.

 

[izza]

I can't believe it. I thought you were joking for sure, but this is actually a good tip and I move my eyebrows all the time. Maybe I should stop.

Izz

 

[KillaCam]

I hope people don't become overly obsessed with the smaller details of life. The less time spent mulling over minute things, the better.

A clear head wins the day.

 

[Ice Cold]

Just walk around with a poker face all the time. And don't change the tonality of your voice either... this way people will never know what you're really thinking. haha