Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Shhhhhh....Demon said:Irony.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Shhhhhh....Demon said:Irony.![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
skip2mylou781 said:Ruckus, i agree with u about there being golden nuggets here at sosuave NO DOUBT ABOUT IT! The problem is those people who OVERANALYZE
Some people don't learn on their own. I already addressed this. Did you read it? They don't figure out that THEY are the problem when they fvck up. Sosuave slaps them in the face and gives them a starting point. Look at LukeSkywalker. He's a fvck up even after having read everything. Sh1t, i shouldn't have said anything in case he AMOGs me.I practiced tryin to get with girls, and u are correct, i sucked somewhat, in fact i kissed only 4 girls in a period of 1 year after my 1st kiss, and i fcvked only 5 girls in 1 year when i first had sex........and over time, i simply LEARNED from my own mistakes, AND got better........by the way I drastically improved in looks too (lost weight, work out, nice clothes, better hair)
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Same thing you describe of drastic self improvement happened to me also.....After I visited SoSuave.skip2mylou781 said:Ruckus, i agree with u about there being golden nuggets here at sosuave NO DOUBT ABOUT IT! The problem is those people who OVERANALYZE and try to follow rules when there are no rules to follow........
I practiced tryin to get with girls, and u are correct, i sucked somewhat, in fact i kissed only 4 girls in a period of 1 year after my 1st kiss, and i fcvked only 5 girls in 1 year when i first had sex........and over time, i simply LEARNED from my own mistakes, AND got better........by the way I drastically improved in looks too (lost weight, work out, nice clothes, better hair)
simply improving physically and mentally I was able to learn how to be much much much better with girls than i EVER was when i first started
By teh way, all that was BEFORE i ever knew sosuave existed