"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Important: Ankle Injury

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Okay so I'm going back into my damn apartment this afternoon and without looking I miss this huge hole in the ground and I hurt my ankle.

The damn thing has swollen up now to the size of a ball and I have no idea what to do. I don't have any health insurance or nothing.

Does anybody know what to do? Would ice and water help or should I not try that? It also sucks because as I'm trying to get over my anger at women for not being there for me when I need them, I have ****ing no one to call to even attempt to ask for assistance. But when they need ol' Mr. Charming boy there I am.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JCballin88

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(this may be a little off-topic but I can feel this guy's pain so I'll help him out)

I hurt mine playing basketball at college in January, and since then have blown it out 2 more times.

If it's still within 48 hours, rest and ice are the most important things. Try to keep it elevated above your heart to decrease swelling. Ice 20 minutes on, 20 off.

Stay constantly on Ibuprofen or some other anti-inflammatory. Take an extra pill if you need to.

It'll probably be bruised and discolored for a few days...this is normal. Other than that, just take it really easy. If you have an ACE bandage wrap it around your foot/ankle in alternating motions until it feels snug. It'll tighten as you walk so make sure you're not cutting off circulation. If you have big sturdy shoes with high sides, it will help to maintain stability (and tie them pretty snug too.)
 

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#1 - Don't take medical advice from 20 year-olds on internet forums.

If it's not getting better in a day or two, get yourself to a hospital.
 

scrouds

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RICE.

Rest
Ice
Compression
Elevation

I'd also pop ibuprofin as mentioned. Normal dose is 400mg, prescription dose was usually 600mg (3 tabs)
 

romanticpoet

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Once it's good enough to stand on, start doing ankle exercises, really helps you come back faster and makes your ankle stronger so you dont mess it up as easily. Also, if it swells up a lot, then once you can, you need to start massaging it (somewhat hard) to help break apart the scar tissue or else its going to hurt a lot and you can't bend your knees too much once you heal for a long time. Usually this only happens if its a really bad sprain.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scrouds,

Nice name drop with RICE.. Are you in Medicine?

More than likely you have what's called an Ankle Inversion when your leg rotates laterally and your foot doesn't move. If you were able to put weight on it and walk more than 3 steps after injury then it probably isn't broken..

Google "Ottawa Ankle Rules".. It is a pretty much fail proof way to know if you need films taken..

RICE and try to limit amount of time you spend on it. Also start ankle and calf exercises to help strengthen up those Ligaments in your ankle..
 

scrouds

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I'm not at all, just something I remember from gym class back in high school. I guess the 2 weeks of sitting in the smelly gym classroom paid off.

I'm going to have to remember the Ottawa ankle rules, that's a good guide on whether to send someone home or to the hospital.
 
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