Broham
Senior Don Juan
A recent thread on oneitis prompted me to start this thread. Hopefully I can stay on-topic here.
All the great posters on this board seem to present the same themes relating to improving all aspects of your life, not just with women. This is golden advice, but I think one facet that's rarely mentioned, yet so critical is PATIENCE.
Patience, or lack thereof, has been my worst enemy my entire life.
-I've lost points on tests in school because I rushed through them.
-I've made impulse purchases because I had to have the product RIGHT NOW, when I could've waited until it went on sale and saved some money.
-I lost a chance at a promotion at work since I kept trying to convince my boss that I was ready when I really wasn't.
The list goes on and on......
This carries on to my myriad experiences with girls. I have always seemed to rushed into things, not b/c I was obsessed with the girl (although I will admit to having oneitis at one time) but b/c I wanted booty without playing the game long enough!!
I think part of this problem is American culture and how it's brainwashed us into needing to have everything NOW!! We can have porn whenever we want it, strippers, TV is filled with sex. Guess what, it's not REALITY! You're dealing with someone's emotions here. Nothing good comes without patience. Do you think any of the great inventor's rushed into their creations?Fellas you gotta realize no matter how hot you may think you are or how good your game is, nothing comes overnight. You gotta play the game, or better yet, let the game come to you. Why is LeBron James so good at BBall? Watch him play. Besides having the physical tools, he's cool and patient, doesn't rush things, let's the game come to him. That's how you gotta act.
To reiterate what all the Great Ones have said: Improve your life, but more important, become a patient person. You aren't going to die tomorrow, God willing. All the chicks aren't going to disappear, and if a girl is into you, she's certainly not either. If you smother her early on and expect too much, consider her gone forever. Believe me, I've had many girls perma-flake on me after all the "signs" seemed to be there.
All the great posters on this board seem to present the same themes relating to improving all aspects of your life, not just with women. This is golden advice, but I think one facet that's rarely mentioned, yet so critical is PATIENCE.
Patience, or lack thereof, has been my worst enemy my entire life.
-I've lost points on tests in school because I rushed through them.
-I've made impulse purchases because I had to have the product RIGHT NOW, when I could've waited until it went on sale and saved some money.
-I lost a chance at a promotion at work since I kept trying to convince my boss that I was ready when I really wasn't.
The list goes on and on......
This carries on to my myriad experiences with girls. I have always seemed to rushed into things, not b/c I was obsessed with the girl (although I will admit to having oneitis at one time) but b/c I wanted booty without playing the game long enough!!
I think part of this problem is American culture and how it's brainwashed us into needing to have everything NOW!! We can have porn whenever we want it, strippers, TV is filled with sex. Guess what, it's not REALITY! You're dealing with someone's emotions here. Nothing good comes without patience. Do you think any of the great inventor's rushed into their creations?Fellas you gotta realize no matter how hot you may think you are or how good your game is, nothing comes overnight. You gotta play the game, or better yet, let the game come to you. Why is LeBron James so good at BBall? Watch him play. Besides having the physical tools, he's cool and patient, doesn't rush things, let's the game come to him. That's how you gotta act.
To reiterate what all the Great Ones have said: Improve your life, but more important, become a patient person. You aren't going to die tomorrow, God willing. All the chicks aren't going to disappear, and if a girl is into you, she's certainly not either. If you smother her early on and expect too much, consider her gone forever. Believe me, I've had many girls perma-flake on me after all the "signs" seemed to be there.