Immediate message

[In_the_Wild]

Ok, 3-day rule and all that. But how about this: sending her a message right like 1-2 hours after we part, (late in the night) just like, "hope your not drunk driving " or whatever.

The point would be to get her responding, thinking about you before she sleeps, and than more expecting you to call her soon, but you still stick with the 3-day rule.

I sometimes feel like this might have helped a bit..

Any feedback, theories (I usually end up waiting real long before calling girls, which has them all surprised when I call...)

 

[In_the_Wild]

Could be true. Was meant more as a joke though, like, you better watch out for yourself, crazy as you are..

But I get your point..

The question was not so much bout the content of the message though, but about the principle.

Thanx still

 

[Jariel]

Don't think about it so much. A girl isn't going to ditch you just because you send her a message "too soon". If it feels right and it's congruent with your personality, go for it. That's what confidence is about.

 

[flexion_]

Send her a message when there is a point to it. I see no point to this.

You might as well send her a message - "Do you miss me yet?".