"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok, 3-day rule and all that. But how about this: sending her a message right like 1-2 hours after we part, (late in the night) just like, "hope your not drunk driving ;)" or whatever.

The point would be to get her responding, thinking about you before she sleeps, and than more expecting you to call her soon, but you still stick with the 3-day rule.

I sometimes feel like this might have helped a bit..

Any feedback, theories (I usually end up waiting real long before calling girls, which has them all surprised when I call...)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Could be true. Was meant more as a joke though, like, you better watch out for yourself, crazy as you are..

But I get your point..

The question was not so much bout the content of the message though, but about the principle.

Thanx still
 
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Don't think about it so much. A girl isn't going to ditch you just because you send her a message "too soon". If it feels right and it's congruent with your personality, go for it. That's what confidence is about.
 
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Send her a message when there is a point to it. I see no point to this.

You might as well send her a message - "Do you miss me yet?".
 
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